As we go through our days trying to help “patients” who find our clinic, half way believing what we see coming through our professional door (or calling in over the phone is even better now) to be some kind of “normal” for our world, or somewhat “legitimate” even, we often learn how sad the truth is in this country now about “what’s really going on here”. It’s about Behavior now so often. Today’s typical American is basically a spoiled brat. This may not be true of all, but it sure is true of the vast majority today. And the worst part is the “why” behind why we as a nation don’t see this, too! That’s the part that’ll kill us all in the end; that’s for sure!
It takes a level of babying today’s “customer” – to such a ridiculous degree, just to be able to “have their business,” that is truly stupid nowadays! Any legitimate business would “just say no” to more of these Americans, more often than “yes,” surrounding this level of abuse of ones’ services, staff, facility and persons trained to maintain your business – “serving” this selfish clientele’, acting appreciative just to be able to gladly catch this hideous level of typical American abuse thrown onto most businesses in operation today? Not hardly. Thankfully, some show up to back us up on our unusual positions against this – standing against this type of American Behavioral Aggressive Drama (A-BAD thing), as they are at such a distance from this to be able to see it – clearly and accurately – for what it is (and not for what “we” deny about it, typically, here in this behaviorally sick country).

I know you have a lobby full of people, and if you refuse to give me drugs or what I want, guess how loud I can get?!!
For maintaining an open door to today’s American public, mind you, comes an extremely daunting task – requiring high energy, stamina, endurance & quite the “restrained” attitude – all endured by so many in the working world of today, just to “serve the public” (and you should just see what today’s “public” actually has in store for you as a business in this country today, along with what “they” can bring to your business and can openly do to you there these days, in living rude reality)! The mistake most businesses commit today is to try to serve this demanding crowd… and “make them happy”? Good luck! This trying task has become in this country something other than what it should or could be, most know, but few will openly admit what this “fun” is all about that we speak of here today, that’s for sure. Actually, many know this truth about “we” Americans, but few are willing to stand up and call it what it truly is today – which is nothing but arrogant “bad behaviors” exhibited by a large breed of spoiled Americans – as to do so openly would be akin to “running off your customers” and would be very “bad for business” today, if not worse. All this while most businesses in America today operate in what has become a nightmare of drama, day to day, putting up with the typical American Bad Behaviors – thrown at anyone daring to maintain an “open door to the public” – in this emotionally sick nation we have going here today. ”It’s my world – everybody else just lives in it!” This seems to be the main teaching to all younger Americans today, quite obviously…and we do dare confront this at our location on a daily basis, as we say “Hold on a minute!” We don’t tolerate that abusive behavior here, and we think it’s time you just leave, as well…with your inappropriate bad behaviors, with you! You bet we do this – often today!
In the business of “emergency rooms” and walk-in clinics today, where we work to resolve serious medical and social (i.e. behavioral) problems here in the Southeastern part of the U.S.A, we often discuss this issue “behind closed doors” with the few sane individuals we find or know (having to deal with it, with us). Discussions usually revolve around how clearly stupid it has become to maintain and operate a “door open to today’s public” here in this declining country we see coming apart at the seems these days. If we told the truth about this experience, we would have to simply label this with at least some of the following obvious adjectives, about Americans today: Stupid, Arrogant, Ignorant, Demanding, Pushy, Insolent, Dangerous, Drug Seeking, Misbehaving in Public, Lots of Melo-Drama, Selfish, and so on. The American Public today has overwhelmingly become like that of a 2 y/o child – most often getting their way through the inappropriate and highly dramatic displays of “dissatisfaction” over everything! Most often, this comes out as a purposefully well-played “drama” in the public eye for all to see…and for a typical business reaction to quickly “give them whatever they want” (if they’ll just be quiet)! And you think I’m kidding here about this? Fact: This has EVERYTHING to do with this country’s total dysfunction in Politics, Schools, Families (including Addictions) – all of which is now becoming the disaster it has been warning us about in this country for many decades, now.
But on rare occasion we do find a person or family we treat who “isn’t from around here” (although this is not the main criteria that prevents this behavioral plague from invading us, believe me) and these few folks seem to have a very different view of what they see in we Americans today, too. They notice this insane thing called “behavior” well; they’ll tell you about it – if you’re not part of the problem of “it,” too.
As our latest “good experience” so happened here (and they have become so rare we do talk about them now), we just had the pleasure of encountering a young man at the clinic who was able to speak, though reluctantly so, about what he sees in the typical American’s ugly behaviors! Here is what he said. ”I’ve noticed the way (you) American’s behave today; it’s very distressing and extremely difficult to have to deal with, on my part…” (paraphrased)
As this man’s visit proceeded, it became expedient to discuss both Anxiety & Stress related to his having experienced this out of the average “American” he works around today – this being so different, he explained, to what he experienced as he lived in Canada for so many years before. People just don’t behave this way, up there, it seems…imagine that!
It so happens this young man is a very intelligent computer IT type person, working for the U.S. Government after being self-transplanted “back to the USA” from Canada, where he spent most of his young life of decades past. He knows both countries well, it turns out. His clear comparisons of “how it is here vs there” in both realities became the central topic of our conversation, by treatment’s end, too. You see, we’ve long noticed this to be a serious problem in this country as we must deal with this – American’s growing Bad Behaviors – in the field of Addiction. This is the “how to fix this” in Addiction, basically, and it’s where most candidates for treatment do fail, as well. They often want no part of it – identifying their own “bad behaviors” in a way as to correct this deadly pattern of dysfunction (despite this literally killing them, and the rest of us, through their Addictions)!
It’s called “Behavioral Medicine” for a reason, and it’s eating this nation like a rabid cancer today, yet, few will gutsy up to even identify this prevalent nasty issue about themselves…and “ourselves” as a misbehaving nation today…because we are extremely full of crap and immature to a level of, say, about an emotional age of about 12 (in most cases)…all of which are “not nice” issues most mature peoples of the world (past and present) have had to deal with prior to their teenage years. But not US. No, we insist “we” are all “just fine” from birth now in this country, I guess. Still, by not addressing this behavioral issue in reality today, it only gets worse. Eventually, we will literally come apart at the seams; many think today (I received a call this very day about this – from a person known to have insight deep and accurate to the core of this very issue today) America is on the verge of a total meltdown, concerning all this dysfunctional internal stuff about now, too.
America – where Reality is stranger than Fiction – and where a nation of “we’re just fine” all live, always – just ask us! Hint: If one person tells you something you don’t like or think is true, then just drop it…probably. If two or fifty two tell you the same “unpleasant thing” about yourself…then, if you drop that, you’re the idiot with your head stuck in the sand, absolutely! Think about it, Ostrich nation!
Disclaimer: Truth rules over opinion or desires that something could be different than what is, and that same Truth is what has the power to “set us free,” too…if we’d listen. Will we? Unfortunately, the truthful or real opinions about this American Tragedy, called Bad Behaviors, is not just my own. It’s the assessment and conclusion of many who “see the Truth” and dare to speak it today, even if it hurts! There can be no other way to remain free or mentally healthy than to do just this. I dare you America! It’s time to stand up and speak the Truth about US and all else today. Stop being the Ostrich! It won’t work in the end…












